Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.
They may forget what you said — but they will never forget how you made them feel
If you want your children to improve, let them overhear the nice things you say about them to others.
Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.
Don’t worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you.
Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
Select one of the above quotations that resonated with you, and consider the following questions:
In the last activity you learned that the functions of families included:
There are many different family types and everyone has a different circumstance. In order to meet the needs of a family, members take on different roles.
In your own family situation:
Read the following article. If you want to view any links in this pdf, right click and select "Open Link in New Tab" to avoid leaving this page.
Review the data in the following table from Statistics Canada.
Once you have completed the “Who Does What” activity, read the article, and analysed the table above, consider your thoughts.
In the next section of this activity, you will focus on another function of the family, socialization.
Some Facts about Socialization
Throughout life, different agents of socialization take on varying levels of importance. Sometimes the impact of an agent of socialization is subtle and unintentional. For example, you may directly teach a child to say please and thank you when addressing people. What you may not realize is that children observe and learn from unintentional messages too. For instance, if you yell and throw things each time you get angry, your child will learn that is the way to deal with anger. Take a look at the following video to get a deeper understanding how of agents of socialization work.
the process by which individuals gain the knowledge, language, social skills, and values of a group or community
After you have viewed the socialization video clip, respond to the following questions.
In this next section of the activity, you are going to focus on primary socialization and the role that parents and families play in socializing children.
For most people, your first social interactions happen with family members, and for this reason the family is often considered the most important agent of socialization. Most of a child’s early family socialization happens through parenting.
Read the following excerpt from “Sociology: Understanding and Changing the Social World”. Make notes on the factors that influence how parents socialize children. If you want to view any links in this pdf, right click and select "Open Link in New Tab" to avoid leaving this page.
After viewing the video clips and reading the section on families as agents of socialization, write a personal reflection based on the questions below.
The information that may be discussed below involves your family situation. It may trigger strong emotions in some students. Please be sure that the information that you share is appropriate for school and does not reveal sensitive personal information.
In the upcoming sections of this activity, you will consider parenting. Please be aware that when examining the parenting role, it is important to be inclusive. The parenting tasks and responsibilities can be can fulfilled by a child’s biological parents, extended family members, adoptive parents, foster parents or any other caring person who assumes that position.
The relationship children develop with their parent impacts their growth and development. Early in life, a parent begins to build a relationship with the child by responding to an infant’s cries. How parents respond, whether it be with care and nurturing or with disregard and frustration, begins to shape the child and his or her self-concept and view of the world around them.
Below are some theories that examine the impact of the parent-child relationship. As a reminder, theories offer a perspective or explanation for behaviour; they are not absolute. As you read, pay particular attention to how the parent’s behaviour impacts the child’s growth and development. You may wish to use this template to help you organize your notes on these theories:
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The following activity may evoke strong emotions in some students, as mental illness, blended families, neglect, foster families and adoption are discussed.
For this task, select and read one of the case studies below, then answer the following questions. Use this template to organize your information.
Isolates is the term sometimes used to describe children who have been raised in isolation from families and/or society. Using search engines and databases, investigate isolates. You may wish to specifically look at the story of Genie Wiley in your search for information.
Examine what happens to children if early socialization is disrupted and they are raised in isolation. What is the long-term prognosis?